Lets Talk about Sex...uality - (kinda, sorta but not really)

This is for my straight, non-curious friends/associates/ secret haters.....If your significant other can not handle my truth, or/and our friendship, you might not want to tell him about my lifestyle choice....for the sake of your relationship, your ...blah, blah, blah... Okay that was bullshit. I don't really feel that way. 

Just because I chose to ride on the fence,while you prefer to ride alongside the fence, that does not mean we cant be friends.  It does not mean, that I will try and convince you to ride on the fence with me, and it definitely does not mean, that at some point I will be attracted to you. Gross! If we have always been friends, you should have now elevated to the level of 'Sister" in my life and I hope to be looked at as the same.  Because I chose to be one way, and that's not your way, it does not mean we no longer have anything in common.  If you prefer your hair to be red, long & permed and I like my hair black, short & natural - does that mean we cant go to same hairdresser at the same time?  That does not make us who we are to each other, nor does it define us.

Its MY lifestyle...just one more thing that makes me different from my friends, but it doesn't change who I have been for the last 37 years.  I am much thicker than I was 20 years ago, does that mean I have to hang out with people that are in my weight bracket?  My hair is natural, does that mean I need to only have friends that have natural hair?...I have two degrees, does that mean I should only hang out with people that have been to University and acquired a degree?....u see where I am going with this?  See how trivial and superficial it sounds?

When people react negatively to things it is commonly through FEAR...but why fear the unknown? You can fear what is known, based off of experience but how can you be afraid of something you know nothing about. Also, some people confuse bi-sexuality/homosexuality with pedophilia! For fucks sakes, its not the same got damn thing!!!!!! A child gets molested every day, and trust me, its not a gay man or woman...its your next door neighbor's husband, wife, boyfriend, girlfriend, brother or fucking sister.  People's perception is their truth...but seriously, though....have you ever been wrong?  Exactly!

Being bi-sexual/homosexual does not mean that you are attracted to EVERYONE of the same sex!!! Where the fuck that concept came from - I cant fucking tell... As a straight person,  ask yourself.. Do u/have you ever wanted to fuck every guy or girl that you have come into contact with? I'd hope not, that would mean you have no fucking standards, you're gross and you're Trashhhhhh!!! .....LOL! *and you definitely shouldn't judge if you don't have standards*

I have learned that u should believe none of what you hear and half of what you see.  We are all individuals, which means we do not have to think alike...We aren't clones of each other. We each have the freedom to think, act and feel however we want...(never let someone convince you otherwise)....We are drilled as children to believe this, act like that, dress this way - and the way I see it, we are all raised to fit in, not stand out.  Well, we are all adults now.  Once you reached 21, whether your parents allowed you to live your life as an adult or not, you still had become one.  As I approach my 40's, I am definitely an adult, with an adulterated mind *evil grin*..... but Ive been 'legally free to think" since I started paying my own damn bills, so fuck you if you ain't!  GROW UP!